I was JUST saying Monday night that these mofos don’t bring shit to the table but dick,
But need us to meet all kinda qualifications and shit.
Like, in the past 2 years, I’ve seen FOUR unemployed men embark on brand new relationships.
There are women out there who will give the time of day AND MORE to a nigga that ain’t even got no JOB,
KNOWING that as women, we couldn’t be unemployed and expect a man to want to date us.
And these men feel like they are perfectly justified in approaching these women and asking these girls to fuck with them.
I’m so over patriarchy.
a black woman without a job is the lowest rung on the ladder. she’s a golddigger, she thinks men should pay her for the privilege of fucking her, she’s worthless, she’s a “typical” black woman, etc.
a brother who lives with his mama and has to ask her for money and doesn’t have a job and doesn’t do shit to contribute to society and maybe even has children somewhere — sisters are supposed to GIVE HIM A CHANCE MAYBE HE’S TRYING TO GET HIS LIFE TOGETHER!!!
a sister doing the same thing, but is maybe getting some assistance and is at LEAST bringing in food and making sure her child/ren gets medical care and takes care of them full-time because she can’t afford daycare is a WELFARE QUEEN WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT HOW DARE SHE EXPECT A MAN WHO ACTUALLY HAS SOME SHIT GOING ON FOR HIMSELF TO GIVE HER A SECOND LOOK???
working, especially successful, black women are SHIT ON for not giving sorry ass black men a “chance”. and yep all they have to offer is dick, and they still act like you should be LUCKY that they chose your black ass over someone else to give that dick to. and the worthless ones are always the ones talking about how they want a family, they want “wife” material, they want a woman “keeping it 100” when they don’t have SHIT to offer and bring absolutely nothing to the table.
and then they have the nerve to act all crazy and shit when all you want from them is the only thing they’re good for - sex - like you’re SUPPOSED to want more from them when they don’t have more than that to give you in the first motherfucking place.
tasha don’t get me started this early in the day!
Girl, you better say that shit.
“GIVE HIM A CHANCE! SUPPORT HIM! HE’S TRYNA GET HIS LIFE TOGETHER!”
And then when he get on his feet, what he do?
Leave your ass, and go enjoy what you helped him build with some other chick.
A young girl who don’t know the ins and outs of manipulation and emotional abuse, who will look up to him and think he hung the moon.
I talk all the time about Okayplayer.com’s messageboard community, and how I spent a good 7 years there, ingesting that abuse culture bullshit.
I’d come with tales of my dating life, and niggas was always screaming at me to ‘GIVE HIM A CHANCE!”
KNOWING that if EYE tried the same shit these niggas pull on us, I’d be laughed outta town.
Fuck outta here, for real.
The guy who was harassing me at work kept bragging about being 47 with a job & no kids. And he thought that made his ass a catch. He looks like Uncle Fester’s skinny brother, he’s living with his momma & doesn’t have anything like home training. He’s rude, ugly, & a creep. To this day he can’t figure out why no one wants him and stays mad at women who tell him no.